A useful way to think about it (and I think what the OOP is saying) is to think about it as a scale from 0-100. Where 0 is like the coldest humans can deal with and 100 is the hottest humans can deal with. Obviously this isn’t strictly true (it gets to like 115 in death valley) but as an imperfect generalization it’s pretty useful.

While I’ve experienced almost all of these problems I’m significantly less put off by it. I’ve found we each kind of have deeper friendships with certain characters, so the other doesn’t really interact with that character as much.