This is usually how I text, I wouldn’t consider myself dry but someone said I was??

My response to my friend ranting about a breakup and that she broke up with him

  • aasatru@kbin.earth
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    6 days ago

    If this is serious, you consider these people friends, and you honestly don’t see the problem with your communication here, you have two options when you receive a text message:

    1. Suggest meeting up
    2. Call them

    Leaving voice messages is a potential third option, if you’re capable of expressing yourself like that.

    It seems people are interested in talking to you, but you are clearly not cut for written communication. With responses like this they might not be interested in talking to you in person after either.

    If you don’t feel like talking due to depression, consider telling them about this. Probably in person. Like “Hey, I’m a bit depressed, so when we meet up and hang out it takes a lot of effort from me and the stars pretty much need to align. I’m super happy to do it, but I can’t always gather the strength to. So when I’m pretty shit at texting it’s because I struggle to gather that kind of energy out of nowhere. It’s nothing personal.”