so this one girl, i’ll call her ella (19f) is transphobic, homophobic
she lashes out a lot, exaggerates things, and cannot read social cues. however, she has autism and adhd and is mentally much younger.
she also gets mad when i call a trans man “he” and she says “SHE’S A GIRL EVEN THO SHE LOOKS LIKE A MAN LOL”
she says she got her views from her parents and refuses to change because “it’s the way i am”. for someone who was mentally 19, I’d cut contact, but she’s mentally a lot younger.
Ask her if her parents jumped off a cliff if she’d do it too.
No, it didn’t answer your question, nor is it helpful or useful advice. I just think it’d be funny and her parents absolutely used it on her at some point… it’s a mandatory phrase all parents are legally required to say to their kids at least once. It’s part of the contract you sign when the hospital gives you a baby.