Like you’ll need to hide everything new you got into in fear he’ll yell at you or humiliate you for buying a new game or watching a new show, or even wearing a new shirt. Would you hide that you still celebrate Halloween, Christmas, birthdays, etc despite not being a little kid? Is it normal to go by keyspam usernames and be as anonymous as possible to avoid being found online by your friend as he’ll post private information or hate on all of your posts? While also seeming like the asshole because you’re being secretive for no reason?
What exactly makes this person a “friend?”
Simply put: no that is not normal. That person is not really your friend.
You mistyped “bully” as “friend”
I used to have a friend like that in high school and life significantly improved when I decided to change friend groups.
being secretive for no reason
You’re not being secretive for no reason. You’re being secretive to avoid harassment from someone you care about. Seems like they don’t really return the favour, they just make fun of you.
Everyone is saying that’s not a friend, but I’m seeing paranoia or at least anxiety.
Wether they’re a friend or not doesn’t really matter here, take care of yourself, talk with people of you need to, okay?
If you’re walking on eggshells everytime an interaction happens is time to find someone else to interact.
This doesn’t sound like a friendship I would want.
This is not the behavior of a friend.
It’s not normal behavior at all in any way.
I beg to differ. If I were a c-word, this behavior would be par for the course.
What’s the C-word? Cunt?
In that case yes, it’s cunty behaviour but that’s not normal behaviour.
Did you skip high school? You’re equating normal with socially desirable. I don’t. There are plenty of people who behave normally while not being nice. E.g. bullies, mean girls. Some of them never grow out of it.
I’m not, it’s actually not normal behaviour.
In your heart I think you know the answer or you wouldn’t be posting here like this. No, it’s not normal or healthy. That person is not a friend, and he seems dangerous to be around (maybe not for physical reasons but definitely for mental reasons).
Continue to be secretive and distance yourself from him; that’s not asshole behavior, that’s self-preservation. I hope you are able to separate yourself and get free from this person and in time find actual friends who care and support you for who you are.
No. And these sound like trauma reactions.
Yeah that’s abuse.
Your “friend” sounds like they’re due for at least one brick to the ribs. You deserve better, dude. Get that loser out of your life!
This is not a friend. You can do better. And should start now
You owe them nothing. Cut them out of your life. You don’t even need to explain
Do not associate with people who treat you this way.
Your friends should love to see you geek out over the stuff that makes you happy.
