I’m completely and utterly burnt out of education, and queer anyway. I live in shithole, US and am desperate to move.

I am very good at math and science, and explaining how to do math to people. I have fairly severe ASD adjacent symptoms at the moment, eye contact is difficult and off putting tics or body posture are just not something I can’t avoid atm. This is a burnout phase, which I experience cyclically and is also related to periods of high stress.

I want a 9-5 with health insurance. I am hopelessly in forever debt, but live poor as shit anyway. I would like to move out of my shithole before they put on “f” on my drivers license. I have a decent size library that I want to transport to wherever I move.

I’ve had severe executive function breakdown related to actual physical torture and other things. What I am looking for is a path to owning a small home in a place that is welcoming to trans people and a job that requires less planning and more in the moment tasks. I have no desire to be wealthy, but I want a house with my name on it that no one can ever kick me out of.

I can program, I can read fast, I can pick up a lot of skills very quickly. I have a BA, BS, and most of an MS. I just can’t organize. I can’t plan out my to-do lists. I need something very difficult and interesting for someone to point me at.

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    You can’t immigrate out of the US, most other countries don’t have nearly as permissive immigrarion laws as the US, especially if you’re not a refugee.

    For the record, medical debt isn’t real debt. Don’t trust me, go Google around for it. Medical debt does not impact your credit score. So just don’t pay.

    Now, if you want difficult, go be an oilman. They make shit tons of money, and for good reason.

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      Did you know that the mining industry in DRC is always looking for new employees? Could be a safe job with great benefits?

      I’m sure they’ll tell you that there’s literally zero risk of a rock ceiling collapsing on your head. And what about the fumes from that odd colored pond? It’s just hydrogen cyanide. You don’t need to worry about that.

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      You can’t immigrate out of the US

      True. That’s called emigration. Immigration is arriving.

      most other countries don’t have nearly as permissive immigrarion laws as the US, especially if you’re not a refugee.

      That’s literally the opposite of reality. The US has a problem with illegal immigration because legal immigration takes years, sometimes DECADES, and costs thousands to tens of thousands of dollars.

      As for refugees, the US has literally been criminalizing asylum seeking, which is a human right protected by international law that is followed by most countries, for almost a decade.

      For the record, medical debt isn’t real debt. Don’t trust me, go Google around for it. Medical debt does not impact your credit score. So just don’t pay.

      Fun fact: over half of American personal bankruptcies are at least partly due to medical debt.

      Bankruptcy isn’t a magic reset button that lets you off the hook consequence-free (at least not for people with a net worth under $10m), and advising people to ignore debt is ignorantly irresponsible at best, malicious disinformation at worst.

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        True. That’s called emigration. Immigration is arriving.

        Let me rephrase. You can’t emigrate easily.