I’m a 42M, my wife is 37. We’ve got a great marriage, super happy, everything’s solid. About a year ago, we met this guy (36M) through some mutual friends, and over time he’s become really close to us. We hang out all the time, meals, weekends, trips, you name it. Lately there have been some running jokes about how we’re basically a throuple already, and those jokes have been getting a little more… not-jokey. For the record, I’m not into guys and neither is he. But honestly, the idea is kind of exciting in a weird way, and I really like having him around, he feels like a best friend at this point. My wife’s also open to it. So yeah… would it be totally nuts to actually explore this?
It depends on the person. Its usually a bad idea but some people do live like this and are happy. If you are not into men your wife would be the one with 2 husbands and you guys woud be Sister-husbands hahaha Are you ok with your wife having another reationship? Hearing them having sex without you? It will happen. Are you ok with them having inside jokes that don’t include you?
Not being mean but there is no 3 way relationship. A throuple is 3 relationships that work well independently.
Are you ok with that?! If yes let them fuck. If not well…