Why YSK: Choosing an instance with defederation policies you’re most comfortable with is important to make your Fediverse experience smooth in the long run.

Here is a chart showing the defederation count of each instance.

Instance Defederated with how many other instances
beehaw.org 405
feddit.de 101
lemmy.world 63
lemmy.ml 44
sh.itjust.works 4
exploding-heads.com 3

You can get it by going to the instance’s instance list and scrolling/Ctrl+Fing down to “Blocked Instances”. To find the instance list, go to https://your-instance.url/instances, for example, https://lemmy.world/instances

  • Quazatron@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    When moving over from that other site it was the first instance I tried, for no particular reason.

    They made me write a statement why I would want to join the instance (okay, you need to filter the bots, fair enough) so I wrote a nice little text to let them know. I guess I failed to write the keywords they were looking for, so they denied my application.

    That told me all I needed to know about the mods.

    • Altima NEO@lemmy.zip
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      1 year ago

      Same here. I wrote a statement saying why I wanted to join. They had a community there that no one else had at the time, so I mentioned how I wanted to participate in the community there.

      Got denied like 2 weeks later, but it was during that time they defederated from lemmy.world. At that point I knew I was wasting my time waiting to see if I’d get accepted or denied.

    • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      I would have just closed the page the second they asked me to write an essay on why I deserve to be on their website, lol.

      • 🌴 𝓣𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓲𝓼𝓽@community.destinovate.com
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        1 year ago

        Honestly you could say because you like to talk about tacos and it would get approved most of the time. We have that turned on because otherwise we’ll get 60k spam users overnight. Email verification costs money especially if you’re being spammed with 60k requests and the statement box stops all of it.

      • Reliant1087@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Lol, you just need to write a sentence or two. I just wrote that I was leaving reddit and beehaw looked cool.