I’m depressed and I wanna listen to music… 🥲

Its just fearmongering right?

I don’t max the volume, just turn it high enough to hear it, if I used speakers, I’d also turn it so that my ears detect the “same volume” so I don’t get why headphones is worse? Literally the same volume.

Also privacy, I don’t want others to know what I’m listening, the fuck lol.

  • SPRUNT@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I used to mow lawns growing up. Would listen to headphones to drown out the mower. 30 years later I essentially hear this 24/7: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D96_1AsUajA My wife (and everyone else who knows me) knows my general hearing is bad, but not horribly so, and much worse in noisy situations. There are times when I don’t hear that tone as much, but it’s there every morning when I wake up and it’s quiet.

    Also, at max volume, I had to hold the phone speaker on my ear to make sure that video was even making a noise.

    Frequencies above 6k-7k have disappeared/are always there.

    Do yourself a favor and take advantage of noise-canceling headphones so you can keep the volume down.

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      8 months ago

      I often take long walks through a busy city, and in-ear headphones are a godsend. With on-ear ones, I have to turn the podcasts off at high-traffic crosswalks around here, for fear of blowing out what’s remaining of my aging ears.

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    8 months ago

    Complete fear mongering. If you listen to any sound too loud from any source you can get hearing damage, but there’s no reason you need to listen to music too loud with headphones. To the contrary since headphones help block outside sounds (especially with modern noise cancelling headphones,) you can actually turn the music down and hear it just fine.

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    8 months ago

    The issue is probably more that you don’t hear her when you are focused.

    My husband is like that. Especially if he’s listening to something with headphones.

    It’s not the volume (he’s not got them loud) it’s that he’s locked in. I’m the same way, except if you say my name and pause a beat, I snap out quicker.

    I have to say his a couple times. Just starting to talk without a cue and the focus makes us miss the beginning, if not all.

    Also happens with reading, programming, writing Which are immersive. quiet activities

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      8 months ago

      Some people are just like that, regardless of headphones. My fiance gets like that to the point I have to nudge her to get her attention.

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        8 months ago

        Yeah, for sure. My husband and I are both like this. Waving my arm often works for getting his attention.

        But a frustrated parent could definitely blame it on headphones or think the kid is going deaf. Especially if they are not the kind of person that immerses like that.

        Unless the parent can hear the headphone music themselves from a few feet away. In which case, they have a point that it might be too loud.

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    8 months ago

    If you have to use headphones, use soundcancelling like AirPods Pro or whatever else that has noise-canxelling and set your phone to use headphone safety where it reduces the maximum volume to as much as it can

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    8 months ago

    Ask yourself:

    Do you like to hear loud music? At all?

    If yes, then you are in danger. Then you need to be careful all the time, and even more so with headphones, because the feeling of loudness is disturbed a little with headphones.

    Otherwise, forget it all.

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    8 months ago

    Been doing it for almost 30 years. I still have better and more precise hearing than most.

    However

    Most people in the “headphones bad”-crowd fail to understand that it’s the volume and not the medium at fault. I’ve always been very afraid of permanent damage to my senses, ears and eyes in particular, so as much as I love head ranging to loud music, I ensure it’s not too loud. I’m the kind of person who brings earplugs to a concert (the type that dampens the audio without distorting it). I rarely need them, but I keep them with me just in case.

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    8 months ago

    I’ll teach you a trick: if something really is as bad as someone says then why does everyone do it? I would say like the majority of young people on public transportation are using earbuds for their daily commute and they’re obviously not deaf

    Anyways I’ve played guitar and used earbuds since like 12 and my ears are certainly not in a good place.

    Listen to music at comfortable levels and don’t max it out even if it feels like you want to.

    I’m far from deaf though.

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      8 months ago

      That’s absolutely insane logic. “Everyone’s doing it, it must be fine, right?” You know how many incredibly cancerous and harmful materials were once in common use by everyone?

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        8 months ago

        Bad logic, yes, but it stands in this case because the harm is immediate, not in some future decade. Given such widespread use, headphones must be OK or doctors would have been sounding the alarm decades ago after seeing young people with blown out ears.

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        8 months ago

        you’re right now that I think about it doesn’t make sense to say that, consult experts is better advice

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      8 months ago

      if something really is as bad as someone says then why does everyone do it?

      Remember when everyone smoked and we were taught that it was good for our health?

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    8 months ago

    Mom’s sorta right, but also not… If you blast the headphones, yeah, of course it’ll eventually screw your hearing. If you leave them at a level, where you’re able to hear the outside world around you, you’l be fine.

    • If you leave them at a level, where you’re able to hear the outside world around you

      Noise cancelling, you can have it at half-volume and it already covers up all the external noise.

      I think they still don’t know what noise cancelling headphone are, or the fact that noise-cancelling is even a thing, and assume the music must be too loud

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        8 months ago

        Remember: noise cancelling works by playing the inverse waveform to cancel out the external one. That’s still pressure waves in your ear; they’re just no longer registering as sound.

        There have been plenty of studies in this area; to minimize the risk of hearing loss, keep the headphone audio between 60 and 85 dB (remember: it’s a logarithmic scale)

        Anything from 70dB down should be safe; you want to listen to 70-80dB a maximum of 40 hours a week, and 80-85 a maximum of 8 hours a day.

        It doesn’t matter where the sound is coming from; those are just the guidelines for sound waves in your ear canal. Headphones can actually muffle external sounds louder than 85 dB, protecting your hearing.

        Most phones have a setting somewhere to prevent the headphones from emitting sound over 85dB; this is required to be the default by law in the EU.

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    8 months ago

    I love headphones. I have quite a few very good pairs. And headphone amps. And portable headphone amps. Ive been in the hobby for about 10 years now, maybe a bit more. My hearing is still excellent (according to hearing tests I’ve had). Aside from my tinnitus, which ive had since I was a kid. Just be mindful of the volume levels.