If you can’t at least make the argument for the opposing side you shouldn’t be trying to have the argument. So your stance should ideally be solid based on information from either side. You should be able to understand what and why the speaker holds the opinion they do regardless of if you agree. Having conviction in your beliefs should stay solid. Unless objective irrefutable evidence you are wrong is provided.
If you can’t at least make the argument for the opposing side you shouldn’t be trying to have the argument. So your stance should ideally be solid based on information from either side. You should be able to understand what and why the speaker holds the opinion they do regardless of if you agree. Having conviction in your beliefs should stay solid. Unless objective irrefutable evidence you are wrong is provided.