Wikepedia states

“Much like today’s socially acceptable terms idiot and moron, which are also defined as some sort of mental disability, when the term retard is being used in its pejorative form, it is usually not being directed at people with mental disabilities. Instead, people use the term when teasing their friends or as a general insult.”

Is it only a slur if directed at soneone with mental disabilities? Is it a slur if durected at onself?

Whats lemmies take on this?

  • 1984@lemmy.today
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    8 months ago

    To me, it’s no different from idiot and moron. I’ve been watching how the politically correct movement have been making people afraid to use retard. I’m sure they are coming for the words idiot and moron also at some point, and they are going to argue that there is no need to ever use words like that.

    • tomi000@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      Good for you that you are privileged enough to say such bullshit. Try making your friends use your name as an insult and see how it feels

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        8 months ago

        Think about this for a second. What if I am offended by the word “trumpet” because it reminds me of Trump? Shall we ban that word as well?

        You guys who are into banning words don’t seem to realize that there used it be book burnings by the Germans, because they felt what the books said was against their own beliefs. I rather not go down that route because someone is feeling sad about a word.

        If you ban retard, they will come up with another word. Don’t you realize that?

    • shalafi@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      Had a reddit post deleted for using retard as a verb, as in, “Have you tried retarding the action, maybe it’s too fast?”

      • 1984@lemmy.today
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        8 months ago

        Because people today don’t question what they are being told. Is it a good idea to ban words? I don’t think so.