Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agoWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?message-squaremessage-square178fedilinkarrow-up1150arrow-down17
arrow-up1143arrow-down1message-squareWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agomessage-square178fedilink
minus-squareTheImpressiveX@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up13·1 year ago“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down7·1 year agoStill kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
minus-squaremiss_brainfart@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up9·1 year agoHonestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.
minus-squareImFresh3x@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·1 year agoI don’t know anyone who doesn’t understand the concept of “I’m busy tonight.”
minus-squareThorny_Thicket@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·1 year agoBut if you have no intention to then you’re just lying and now you’re actually being an asshole instead of just being thought to be one
“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
Still kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
Honestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.
I don’t know anyone who doesn’t understand the concept of “I’m busy tonight.”
But if you have no intention to then you’re just lying and now you’re actually being an asshole instead of just being thought to be one