• snek_boi@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Not me, but the first time my boyfriend traveled with my family somewhere, he could not believe that sitting quietly in a living room reading was a thing. My family didn’t feel the need to fill our day to the brim with tours or shopping or other activities. And that was shocking to him.

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      1 year ago

      That’s shocking to me too. Why travel if you aren’t going to make the most of being in a different place?

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        1 year ago

        So you don’t burn yourself out.

        A lot of people end up miserable on vacations because they don’t give themselves time to relax and enjoy it.

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        1 year ago

        You’re totally right! To be fair, we do go out. It’s just that people can choose what to do. There’s no scolding or pulling if you choose to stay in.

        Also, we don’t really do big expensive holidays, and I think that contributes to people feeling okay staying in. The few times we have done big trips, the story is different. But my boyfriend only knows the smaller trips.

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        1 year ago

        if you aren’t going to make the most of being in a different place?

        They were though…