As a loner, virgin, never in a relationship male adult, it’s something I’ll never experience. So do your best explain it to me, so I can feed that little of imagination left on me.
As a loner, virgin, never in a relationship male adult, it’s something I’ll never experience. So do your best explain it to me, so I can feed that little of imagination left on me.
What does sex have to do with romance?
Also, are you aromantic? Why won’t you ever experience this?
Yeah, that’s definitely a possibility. OP sounds kinda down too.
Check OP’s history, it’s all complaints/whines as questions.
I checked OP’s post history and it’s fine? I expected way worse based on your comment. He posted like 1 post complaining about games and 1 about mcdonalds. Then it’s just random shit and a few questions about not dating. Also one about how much porn is too much porn (that’s probably the worst one.) OP sounds sad. What’s the issue here?
Oh, just get into some of them. It’s usually the same pattern of complaining about their life, people offer help, “not like that.”
Eg: https://lemmy.world/comment/14115909
Or: https://lemmy.world/comment/14235653
Or: https://lemmy.world/comment/14385972
Or: https://lemmy.world/comment/13620704
Or: https://lemmy.world/comment/14434981
Or: https://lemmy.world/post/23747812
I think the thing that bugs me is that so many people have taken the time to help in good faith to get a “naw.” And the cycle repeats with another whine/question until there’s enough pushback, then a couple anodyne questions, then back to the same sad self pity party.
incels gonna do incel things.
“Sure, just work on yourself a bit and you’ll do great! We believe in you”
Well, okay then, enjoy misery I guess.
I mean, I guess misery at least is easy?
It just seems so wild. This person seems so unhappy but has zero desire to do anything, even when we try to find them free fucking therapy! “Oh no, I might talk to someone who could maybe help me!”
Okay yes I did not read the actual comments lol. I see your point. OP doesn’t seem open to feedback.
Not just not open to feedback, but not open to the feedback that he himself solicited!
Nothing. This guy is just feels so high and mighty that needs to grace my existence with his help
You need to get off from me dude.
So you’re going to go meet a beautiful person and initiate romance then?
Ah, well. That was something.
Yikes.
One of those people who would rather wallow in misery than take responsibility for anything.
Yeah. It just bothers me because you can see so many different people have taken the time to articulate solid suggestions, try to be friendly etc and are, at best, met with a “no.” Like, even them complaining about their birthday, so many good people chimed in just to be kind and instead of a thank you or any kind words it’s just this petulant “nooooooooo” attitude, except for literally one post where the commenter posits we’re all insignificant and going to die.
It’s the best and worst of the internet in a single person.
Majority of y’all “doctors” are here just to piss me off and feeling better about yourselves. I didn’t asked for help, because you won’t tell me anything useful.
How is offering to help you find a licensed mental health professional for free trying to piss you off?
And, more importantly, you keep asking “how do you do X, Y Z?” And people keep taking time to help you out!
Wrong