As a loner, virgin, never in a relationship male adult, it’s something I’ll never experience. So do your best explain it to me, so I can feed that little of imagination left on me.
As a loner, virgin, never in a relationship male adult, it’s something I’ll never experience. So do your best explain it to me, so I can feed that little of imagination left on me.
Agreed! Love begins with self love. If you can’t accept and love yourself, you’ll never be able to love someone else.
That doesn’t mean you think you’re perfect. Far from it. It means you accept yourself, warts and all, for who you are without judgement. You look for ways to improve what you can, and work with or around what you can’t. Once you’ve learned to do this for yourself, you can begin to do it for others. But it must start with you. There’s no shortcut.
Also, virgins make a bigger deal about virginity than it needs to be. You’re a person. You’ve done some things with other people at some point in your life. Sex is just another thing you do with another person (or people I guess). Love is what makes sex special. Without it, it’s just another thing to do with someone else. Granted it’s a fun thing that feels good, but without love it’s just a thing. Don’t let it become this mountain you have to climb. It isn’t.