(I don’t really know what counts as transphobic or not because I also don’t know if she’s outright discriminating against trans ppl or just doesn’t find them attractive for some reason.)

Everyone I met who was this was always a heavily right-wing LGBT member somehow, including Natalia (her).

Is this actually transphobic like my friend said or just personally not finding trans people attractive?

I would ask her but she doesn’t talk to me anymore (that’s why I don’t consider her my GF).