Words can be harmful even if you don’t mean them to be. If the slur doesnt apply to you, you should not be using it. If it does apply to you, there is a discussion to be had, but i still avoid using the slurs that apply to me in most cases because they rarely have a positive effect on the point or joke i am making.

I know that this is true, but i refuse to abandon the superior pronunciation.

The doll is wearing an insulin pump

How dare you slander my beautiful fish boy

Its actually the most common kind of color blindness!

The snow on the ground probably melted, leaving the snowman intact because it is compacted and harder to melt.

I mean, isn’t that how most jokes work?