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Cake day: May 11th, 2026

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  • Unless you are doing 50 hours+ at an extremely shitty job type deal, or have some challenging mental illness, you probably haven’t dealt with anything as difficult as the first 2 years of having a kid.

    It doesn’t mean you aren’t going through shit or that a parent who says that isn’t an asshole. But you probably haven’t, been through anything remotely as emotionally physically challenging, it’s just reality. There will be edge cases but you just probably haven’t dealt with that level of sleep deprivation and anger 🤷‍♂️.

    It’s silly to get mad over it.