• theneverfox@pawb.social
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    8 hours ago

    A few months ago, I would’ve said how people try to engage you in good faith and how people would read walls of text and engage

    Lately I feel people are scared and angry. Which is totally reasonable, but has some of the best parts of our communities

    We also probably got a lot of new refugees and more interest from botters… But I used to get love with near every message I posted. Or at least honest engagement. Now? I get way less replies, and way more of them are reading into something I didn’t say

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    21 hours ago

    TBH it feels like a pretty continuous evolution of Reddit, Digg, and whatever was between Digg and usenet. There’s self selection that’s made it a bit more harmonious than Reddit, but that’s it.

    That being said, it’s super cool to get a glimpse into the million different experiences people have had. The internet is a magical place.

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      20 hours ago

      whatever was between Digg and usenet

      for me, it was a mix of Slashdot and a bunch of discussion boards.

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        Oh yeah, I forgot about Slashdot!

        I was around for a bit of the disparate forums era, but I have no idea which ones fed into which 2.0 platforms.

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    Lemmy culture? Nothing, lacks diversity. I often feel like I’m just talking to the same guy. Very rare to read views that don’t align with the groupthink.

    EDIT: Okay, one thing that came to mind is that I can talk about autistic stuff that I do and nobody seems to question/judge it.

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      Okay, one thing that came to mind is that I can talk about autistic stuff that I do and nobody seems to question/judge it.

      Of course, the one guy you’re talking to is also autistic.

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      Isn’t that a good thing though? I would rather be around people that accept my fucked brain than people putting their hand on my knee to stop me from shaking my legs a la restless leg.

      Though I do agree that a variation in opinion would be nice.

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    I love that no one ever blinks an eye when I run naked through here. You guys are so cool!

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    It’s a plus and a negative: how anti-fascist and anti-capitalist it is. I do think that it can go too far at times, but I just block those people. We should try to be less binary as that just isn’t what reality is like.

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    My favorite is: if you disagree, you can always just go to another instance or even create your own. Other than that, I like how, instead of a total score, posts show likes and dislikes separately. This is more of a technical thing than a cultural one, but it has a big impact on making brigading less effective. In general, all these technical decisions make Lemmy very friendly to a variety of cultures and people from across different spectrums of political and other opinions.

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      if you disagree, you can always just go to another instance

      This seems to unintentionally reveal something less positive that the internet has done to our culture.

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            They’ve always existed in some way or another though.

            Which pub you went to, which newspaper you read, which TV channel you watched, they all created echo chambers and bubbles in the past.

            At least with the Fediverse we’re more likely to break out of it due to various instances showing up in our feeds. Various viewpoints being visible. The Fediverse is still in it’s early days so it’s still a bit monoculture with the likes of Linux and anti-capitalism but that’s changing now. We’re seeing more and more different takes on different topics as time goes by.

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    Much kinder than Reddit, people here know how to disagree and discuss things in a more constructive way.

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      Yep! Even when I’ve disagreed with people, it’s been more of an exchange of knowledge rather than one person asking for citations and then proceeding to ignore them all.

      It’s okay to disagree, sometimes you can learn from each other :)

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      Seconded. I’ve definitely had more discussions here than my last year on reddit. Reddit is just a rat race to get the most upvotes for flippant comments or you get downvoted for being nonconformist, especially in the big subs. Also, participants on lemmy with agendas tend to be way more transparent - as in political or pseudo-science. Far easier to avoid or block if need be.

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        Oh yeah? Well heck you and your dumb frickin position you stupy dumb dumby dumb idiot small smooth brain moron. I’m right youre wrong !!!1!1!1!1!1!2!

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    If by culture you mean Lemmy’s users values, beliefs, or ideals there is nothing special I appreciate (or don’t appreciate). I mean, for me it’s irrelevant as it’s all personal preferences like the fact that I don’t like bananas, or that we have not owned a TV for 25 years (glad to know others may share similar preferences, but it’s no big deal if they don’t).

    I care about Lemmy itself not being like Reddit. It’s not ad-driven, there is no algorithmic ‘optimization’, it’s not trying to milk our content and also it’s not being owned by one of those billionaires that think there piles of money means they know better than all of us. But at the same time, I also expect to meet similar kind of people on Lemmy I used to meet on Reddit.

    Interesting or less interesting people. People I agree with and, more often, people I do not agree with (which is fine by me). Very smart people, while others do have the brain power of a brick. Nice people or naughty or even hateful ones. People whose values I share, others I don’t and never will (you can go funk yourself, fascists of all types). People who like what I like and many others that don’t and never will (see my banana and TV examples ;).

    And then I also expect tp meet people who think it’s enough to ask their question without even trying to give it the some context or explanation (say, people who ask what we appreciate most in Lemmy culture without explaining what they mean by that), next to people that try their best to give as much context/explanation as they can ;)

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      Hey, don’t insult bricks like that! At least their intelligence can’t be negative like some people on the internet!