The main reason I can think of is if they would do the same thing, so they’re trying to pretend it “ok”

But other than that I am stumped.

Either that or it’s culturally ok to bully people here and if you don’t like it you are the problem but also you deserved it because you’re stupid

Any time I post on an American forum, I get everyone saying the treatment I receive is absolutely unacceptable and despicable. Any time I write the same on a forum in this country, 90% of people attack me and say the asshole “did nothing wrong” and I “deserved it” for being stupid