• ObtuseDoorFrame@lemm.ee
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    4 days ago

    I was 28 when I was diagnosed autistic. Up until then I had just assumed I was shitty and worthless. Turns out there has never been anything wrong with me, it’s actually society that has failed me.

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      4 days ago

      37 when I found out. Surprised I even made it this far, doing a bit better now that I know now.

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        4 days ago

        Hey, I was the same age. I’ve gotten a lot better but if I’d learned years earlier, maybe I wouldn’t have had so much of my life where I was doped to the gills for being “weird and sensitive”.

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        4 days ago

        Excellent! There are definitely both pros and cons to finding out, but I believe that the pros outweigh the cons. Perhaps the most significant pro is that it helps alleviates self hatred.

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          3 days ago

          Sorry to enter this convo but how exactly did you find out? I mean, who gave you the first heads up you might be autistic and guided you to a more exact diagnosis. And what were the more proeminent factors towards the diagnosis.

          I sometimes think there’s something different about my relationships or approaches but don’t know if it is of value to a medical professional. Or if it’s just normal.