PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 months agoWhat commonly given advice is actually wrong or toxic?message-squaremessage-square88linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareWhat commonly given advice is actually wrong or toxic?PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 months agomessage-square88linkfedilink
minus-squareswelter_spark@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·2 months agoTo me it means be genuine vs being fake. Acting like someone you aren’t to get a partner only results in having a partner that you don’t have a real connection with, and who values you for qualities you don’t actually have.
minus-squareSharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·2 months agoWell yes … but I’ve met many men who, when being themselves, were simply putting in zero effort. And they were oblivious to it. Sometimes it takes someone to come in from outside and give them a shove jn the right direction.
minus-squareVitoRobles@lemmy.todaylinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·2 months agoAbsolutely this. I currently know a guy who is a fully grown adult who loves Asmongold and flips out at why he can’t get a girl to look at him.
To me it means be genuine vs being fake. Acting like someone you aren’t to get a partner only results in having a partner that you don’t have a real connection with, and who values you for qualities you don’t actually have.
Well yes … but I’ve met many men who, when being themselves, were simply putting in zero effort. And they were oblivious to it.
Sometimes it takes someone to come in from outside and give them a shove jn the right direction.
Absolutely this. I currently know a guy who is a fully grown adult who loves Asmongold and flips out at why he can’t get a girl to look at him.