People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life
Doesn’t matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.
Don’t make excuses. If you fucked up admit it and make a plan to prevent it from happening in the future. Excuses themselves do nothing to help a situation.
Left means left, Right means right, Up means up, Down means down, Stop means stop, Go means go, Yes means yes and No means no.
This is my operational matrix. People who can’t abide by this are not welcome in my life.
- OC
What about dyslexic people?
I am.
I’m confused
“First is best”
To avoid overthinking decisions that don’t really matter, the first acceptable choice is the correct one.
Save your indecision for stuff that matters.
Relates to intuition right?
I’m sure your wife loves you…
“Babe, why do you only last 2 minutes when we make love?”
“I’m first to cum! I win at sex!”
If you ain’t first, you’re last Ricky Bobby!
You’re saying your wife’s pleasure doesn’t matter to you?
Me? I was talking about YOU! Its your rule.
For making choices. It’s not a race, buddy.
Forgive yourself when you fuck up
Still learning this one.
I find I easily forgive myself if I immediately recognize the fuckup and have a plan started or in the works to prevent it happening again.
Kind of a “fool me once: shame on this. fool me twice: shame on me” alto its infinitey recursive so I would simply start back at 1
If I learn a lesson from it, its money in the experience bank and I trust myself to make it right and mitigate it as best as is possible
It helps with inverse thinking cuz now you know one of the paths or constituents of failure in whatever the endeavor and you have the opportunity to get closer to success next time
Also, if you’re not fucking up occasionally, then you’re probably not pushing yourself hard enough
I have a whole growing plethora of these, rules of thumb I consider in the long scheme of organization. Where would I start if not to ask about stuff?
You can’t fully trust anyone, not your parents, siblings, extended family, spouse, best friend forever, no one. Don’t count on anyone for anything and accept that the only person in your life who has your best interests at heart is you.
Done
Removed by mod
People either enhance or diminish your life. Very few are neutral.
Treat them accordingly.
What makes a man turn neutral? Lust for gold? Power? Or were you just born with a heart full of neutrality?
If it works for you, do it. Ignore what other people think
Go at your own pace, build habits. You can get good at anything if you stick with it long enough and don’t compare yourself to others.
Adapt or die.
Never admire an entire person, only the aspects of the person you find admirable.
Be slightly more useful than I am annoying… I’m really fucking annoying
Sometimes it’s fine to be annoying. But only sometimes.
Oh I’m well aware. Unfortunately I have far more control over how useful I am than how annoying I am 😅
My sides went into orbit. Specially because I’m aware that I’m often annoying, too. And… yeah, it’s hard to control it, I know, fair point!
Embrace the difficulty, because it’s not going to go away.
Chill the fuck out
