To make a long story short: lately I’ve been flirting with the idea of getting a boob job. I’m satisfied with my current size and my husband is too, but I know he’d really love it - which makes the whole thing exciting for me. If I were to get it done, I’d technically do it for myself since I’d enjoy it, but my enjoyment would stem from my husband’s enjoyment. If it makes sense. So I’ve been thinking, what really is the line that separates the 2?

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Does your husband have experience with women that have had breast implants? If not, I would suggest that you have a frank discussion with him about it.

    • Breasts with implants do not feel the same and can be off putting to some people.
    • The surgery could negatively impact your sexual pleasure by changing the sensitivity of your breasts.
    • There could be negative side effects like infection and/or scar tissue developing around the implant.

    There is nothing wrong with deciding to get implants. It is your body afterall. Just make sure you have all the necessary conversations, with your surgeon, with your husband, and with yourself, before you take the plunge.