• FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org
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    4 months ago

    This is a bizarre opinion…divorce is a long and expensive process. People sepearate all the time and don’t immediately divorce. I have no clue why you assume separated = working on things? More likely separated = preparing for the actual divorce process.

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      4 months ago

      Agree. Lots of time there’s abuse, probably healthy to have a normal relationship while divorce is being finalized. My now wife stayed married to her ex for a while out of compassion so that he didn’t lose healthcare coverage and have to start COBRA.

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      4 months ago

      It’s not a bizarre opinion it’s a thing I have been through. While it depends on state where I live if you don’t have any intention on repair don’t separate go to divorce

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        4 months ago

        Bruh idk how to spell this out for you more clearly. Divorce is long, stressful, and expensive as absolute fucking shit. People tend to take their time with this. You’re living in fairy tale land.