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    6 days ago

    You make it sound easy, but tone plays a HUGE role. “Do you need a break?” sounds waaay different than, “You need to tell me why you’re ignoring me” (using different words because such subtle tone is nigh impossible to convey in text for the likes of me)

    Asking is very much NOT “free” depending on how it is asked.





  • As someone who rocked a rain head … yeah totally. I also still had a ‘normal’ shower head on an adjustable flow valve. lol

    … though the pure rain head wouldn’t have been too terrible. My hair is like 90% of what takes direct flow to clean. Asscracks etc aren’t ‘that’ bad to wash via finding the right posture and waiting a few moments for enough water to find its target.

    … I am fully willing to admit my opinion may change drastically in 30 years when even a leaned over posture becomes a PITA.