if i am not around women i find attractive for extended periods of time, i eat like a pig, sleep like a pig, become lazy and slowly feel like more and more shit
Men become feral if left alone long enough. They identify with the mountains and the moss. They smoke their pipe tobacco while looking longingly along a river. They maintain weight for the winter. They become one with the universe. Then they become horny and the great cycle continues
cycle of what?
Poetry
I realized recently that the only time I miss having a female companion is when I get horny. It occurred to me that if that’s deep down the largest value point I place on romantic relationships, I probably don’t belong in ones that are anything but physical, and transparent in that regard. It was kind of a liberating moment of acceptance.
I’ve been lucky enough to find some women that are a lot of fun to be around, and understand my interests at a deep level. I’d describe it as kind of like friendship, but with a woman
what is a woman
Good question. I don’t actually know. My previous statement is a lie, I’ve only seen them in movies
i don’t think anyone here saw a woman irl lol
A featherless biped
No feathers?
bidet?
Because you don’t love yourself as much as you should, or you would take care of yourself. Because we take care of those we love. But, apparently, you love attractive women enough for them to be motivating. Whenever I know something that motivates me, I use it to the best of my ability, until it comes more naturally (which almost always is by healing something from the past).
So, if being around attractive woman motivates you, be around them as much as you can. Without being creepy or stalkerish or anything non-consensual of course lol.
if being around attractive woman motivates you, be around them as much as you can. Without being creepy or stalkerish or anything non-consensual of course lol
you are so autistic that it hurts me.
lol…or CPTSD. Or both. who is to say. i say it all with humor though.
Wait…explain. This…sounds solid? Of course, whether that advise is even feasible for your current circumstances or not, is another question.
He’s a troll. He’s been making posts like these and then calling everyone who responds as autistic.
That’s OK. Fortunately for OP, I am well versed in spotting projection.
Sounds like you’re externally motivated.
do you even know what that means?
It means the impetus that drives you to improve yourself or even maintain yourself comes from other people, rather than self-regulation.
In your case, social status, specifically social approval from women you find attractive.
There’s nothing wrong with that. Sounds like you just need to maintain contact with those types of people to stay motivated. Shouldn’t be too hard to arrange.
