Sad Crisis call/Text Lines don’t seem to care, give generic advice or is an AI bot. What to do for help when I have no one and want to die?

  • printf("%s", name);@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    21 days ago

    I hope your chat is going well. I’m not well enough myself to engage in such a conversation, but I want to let you know, that you are not alone. There is no shame in having such feelings and thoughts. Just try to tell yourself, that feelings and thoughts will pass. They are not permanent.

  • Canaconda@lemmy.ca
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    21 days ago

    First off where are you on this scale?

    Hopefully the other commenter and you can have a good conversation.

    Honestly I don’t wanna give you generic advice, or even worse, unapplicable advice.

    Best of luck dude. This random internet person is rooting for you!

  • P1nkman@lemmy.world
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    21 days ago

    Hey friend. You’re not alone. Unfortunately, I don’t have the energy to hold s conversation, as I got severely depressed myself about 1.5 years ago. I wanted to die, and I did not tell anyone, not even my wife.

    Started therapy, he was shit, but I got a little better. Then it got bad again, and I asked my friend who his therapist was, whom I now go to.

    I’m still not well, and my hobbies still haven’t come back to me (making shit… I have the materials to build a new chicken coop, but I just can’t get started!).

    It’s a hard fucking struggle, but know that there are people out there who don’t know you, but do care. Like me.

    Tell a loved one or your friend(s). They care, and will be there for you.

    I really hope my message comes through to you because the world will be just a little bit colder without you.

    Take care, friend 🫂

  • alakey@piefed.socialEnglish
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    21 days ago

    I don’t know you so I can’t tell you how to feel, but I can share how I see it - you can die literally any time, so what’s the rush? Might as well keep going on and see where it takes you. There will always be moments when you feel like shit, but when you’re dead - there won’t be any moments at all.

    To answer your question - if it’s real bad then try seeking professional help, regular people are simply not well equipped for dealing with mental crises and could accidentally make things even worse. Otherwise on an “easier said than done” side - learn to be self sufficient, have hobbies, do things you enjoy just because you enjoy it and people will naturally gravitate towards you, you’ll get to know more people who can become real friends and you wouldn’t feel as lonely anymore, and if not - you will no longer depend on others so much that bad moments turn into tragedies.

  • HubertManne@piefed.socialEnglish
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    21 days ago

    If your talking the us we have a wierd thing where we don’t want to help anyone with their life problems but its real important they don’t die. but then we don’t want to spend much money on stopping it. So even that stuff becomes a sort of theater. Personally I would go find any protests happening anywhere around you and go meet some people who also think the way we do things is bulltrump and is looking for a better way. At the very least its nice to be with people who are real enough to show up.

  • MousePotatoDoesStuff@piefed.socialEnglish
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    21 days ago

    Can you be more specific?

    Also, is it more of a "don’t want to live at all’ situation or a “don’t want to live like this” situation?

  • MuttMutt@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    21 days ago

    You keep moving…

    https://dailygalaxy.com/2026/05/albert-einstein-bicycle-quote-meaning/

    Believe me, been there. I have dealt with depression for nearly as long as I can remember. I was always an outcast in school. I had family who were toxic, abusive, and downright nasty pieces of work. When my son died at 9 days old in 2002 I struggled to do anything and was nearly 400 pounds. Then I became a widower in 2019 when my wife died, I was heartbroken and while I was alive I wasn’t living.

    You have to find something to do, you have to get out and make a friend, you have to do anything you can to stop staring at the four walls around you. Exercise helps a lot, go for a walk in a park or ride a bike around town. Also set a schedule and stick to it, plan for 15 or 20 minutes of exercise, get up at the same time every day, go to bed at the same time too. Learn to cook it you don’t already know how and cook most of your meals. Dump the junk food, BTW pre made packaged food is junk food and so is fast food. Get in the shower every day, brush your teeth too. Go to the library and read a book. Learn a new skill. Talk to a stranger. Go help someone else just to do it. Pick up some trash on the side of the road. Do something… ANYTHING… different than you normally do. Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results is a simple definition of insanity.

    You also can’t rely on someone else to make you happy. You have to do that for yourself. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wander-woman/202505/5-ways-to-discover-and-deepen-what-makes-you-happy