As someone who’s been in a similar situation (they split, but couldn’t afford to move out), I don’t recommend it. Shortly after we split, they got back together.
The entire situation was a heavy drag on our (short) time together, and is certainly a factor in why we didn’t work out.
Agreed, I would personally have more issues with the situation if there are kids involved. An amicable divorce and full engagement from both parents in a shared parenting plan would be way better for the kids than staying together nominally and having outside relationships, IMO.
To the “is it moral” question, I would start edging to “no” if I thought the kids were being harmed in any way.
They have 2 young children together and want to give them a stable, nuclear family upbringing.
Sounds like an affair to me.
Wait, are they still living together. If so, fuck that dude.
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Lol. Should have said “fuck that, dude”
Where does ‘separated’ come into it? This sounds like an open relationship. Assuming the other party actually knows, which is doubtful.
They’re separated cause they’re just housemates, don’t have a romantic / sexual relationship anymore. And the wife knows, we talked.
Yea nah fuck that, man. That’s weird af. I wouldn’t fux with that.
As someone who’s been in a similar situation (they split, but couldn’t afford to move out), I don’t recommend it. Shortly after we split, they got back together.
The entire situation was a heavy drag on our (short) time together, and is certainly a factor in why we didn’t work out.
I am unsure that is actually a stable family.
Agreed, I would personally have more issues with the situation if there are kids involved. An amicable divorce and full engagement from both parents in a shared parenting plan would be way better for the kids than staying together nominally and having outside relationships, IMO.
To the “is it moral” question, I would start edging to “no” if I thought the kids were being harmed in any way.